When you have a baby on the way, you get very reflective. Okay, maybe I should speak for myself.
I've recently gotten very reflective of how I live my life and a few of the things that make it more difficult to lead. After thinking about it for several hours, I came up with a few idea of how I can get my life together and make things easier for me and for those around me.
1// I unsubscribed to 20+ email lists.
Every time I looked at my personal email, I was feeling overwhelmed. There were 500+ emails and they just kept pouring in. Just looking at the little red notification on my phone was killing me.
Over the past few weeks I had been non-noncommittally unsubscribing when I ran into offer emails I didn't care to see all the time, but it really wasn't making a dent. Eventually I set up Unroll Me.
What I like about Unroll Me:
A// You can mass unsubscribe to all those emails you don't care for.
B// You can add select emails that you still want to receive to your "Roll Up". Your roll up will show all the selected emails in one pretty email that is far less overwhelming that 500+ notifications on your email.
2// Corey and I started a weekly routine
Friday nights, I make a meal plan for the week.
Sunday during the day, Corey and I go grocery shopping.
Each weeknight (usually with the exception of Fridays) I make dinner.
I also do the dishes and clean up dinner...This is my least favorite part of my evenings.
Every Wednesday Corey goes out and plays kick ball.
...and then we start all over again.
What I like about our routine:
A// I don't get overwhelmed with the "what are we going eat tonight" dilemma over and over again. It does happen on occasion, but it's a lot less frequently.
B// My kitchen is usually clean when I go to cook the next night, thus keeping me from feeling stressed out around meal time every night.
C// We save a lot of money!
3// I made a plan to pay off my debts faster.
No one likes knowing that they owe money to someone or an organization. I am no different. Over the last few weeks I've been looking at what I owe (it's not a ton, but enough to make me want (read "need") a plan) and I've been formulating a plan to get ride of it.
What I like about planning to demolish my debts:
A// My current stress level has significantly diminished because I'm not constantly thinking about the daunting number. I have a plan and I'm ready to deal with it.
B// Corey and I will only be in this lease until next spring. Knowing that my debts will be getting smaller and smaller every month makes our goals to purchase a home or a new car or whatever else we need seem much more attainable.
Preparing for a baby is a lot of work, but it's really helped put a lot of things in perspective for me. I think I know what matters now, but I expect things to change a lot once my baby comes. I guess my best bet is to try my best to be prepared.